However, if your upbringing took place in an environment marked by volatility, where you experienced insecurity, neglect, and a lack of love, your perspective on both the world and yourself could become detrimental. You may develop a belief that aggression, self-centeredness, and self-protection are necessary, given the absence of reliable support. Fear, skepticism, and unease might dominate your feelings, as you struggle to place trust in anyone, even yourself.

When your decisions as an adult are still being influenced by your inner child, and your past traumas continue to shape your choices as a grown individual, it becomes necessary to confront and challenge that youthful aspect within you. Consider this: You would never allow a six-year-old child to drive a car—it’s highly irresponsible and unsafe. The likelihood of a catastrophic accident and harm is substantial. So why permit your inner child to steer your emotions, thoughts, and actions? Recognize within yourself that today, you bear complete responsibility for your life and the decisions you make. You possess the capacity to trust your accumulated life experiences and knowledge to guide you toward the right choices for yourself and your journey. Seize the wheel and take charge of your path, acknowledging the pain from the past while allowing the healing process to shape your course. Empower yourself to control both the direction of your life and your personal journey, just as you would take command of a car.